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Here is a little page that
I've created that might be helpful to beginners.
* There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with being a
crossdresser or TV!!! And you should NEVER be
ashamed of being yourself! If crossdressing and
being Femme makes you happy, and it harms no
one, then what's the problem?! - There is NO
problem!
* Don’t let anyone (including yourself!) tell
you that you can never pass as a woman. If it is
important to you, and you are willing to work at
it, it will happen in time.
* Think carefully about telling your partner
about your crossdressing. Before you confess
all, be sure you have educated yourself first.
Being knowledgeable about yourself and what you
do, is the best way to help a loved one through
the "surprise" you have in store for them. It is
also extremely important to consider HOW to
break the news to your partner. Consider
dropping a few hints first, so that the final
bombshell isn't so much of a shock.
* Not all women can immediately get to
grips with the fact their partner is a
crossdresser, but that doesn't necessarily mean
that they never will. It is therefore important
to give such women plenty of time and space, to
sort out their feelings about their partner's
"alter ego".
* If you haven’t done so already, join a support
group. One of the most potentially destructive
aspects of crossdressing for many men is the
secrecy and loneliness that can accompany it.
You need someone/a place, where you can be
yourself, get support, and talk to others who
have been in your situation.
*Shopping for women’s clothes might seem very
daunting, but remember that you have every right
to be in the clothes shop, just like anyone
else! Whether you are "dressed", or in male
attire, the sales people should treat you with
respect and sensitivity. Don't hesitate to
report unprofessional sales assistants to a
higher authority in the store, if you feel you
were not given the respect you DESERVE!
Beauty tips
*Whilst you can get away with buying some cheap
garments for your wardrobe, NEVER skimp on the
quality of a wig! Cheap wigs look very cheap,
and you will be spotted as being a male
crossdresser, in less that two
seconds!.
* When applying makeup, it is well worth your
while to invest in a lighted makeup mirror, or
apply makeup in natural daylight. Make sure the
mirror has a magnifying side to it.
* Don’t waste your money on breast creams, home
“permanent” hair removal systems or “amazing”
natural feminizing pills. They don’t work!
* Always be careful when applying make-up to
the area underneath the eyes. The skin is
delicate, and stretches easily, so make sure you
apply foundation and creams using your ring
finger, which is the weakest finger, and
therefore is not as rough on the delicate
under-eye skin.
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